Her review. out of stars. In Spike Jonze s postmodern pastoral about a man who dates his operating system, digital affairs are as .Writer director Spike Jonze constructs a beguiling cinematic world in which a man falls in love with a computer program, offering a crash course .On Rotten Tomatoes, the film has an approval rating of based on reviews, with an average rating of . . The site s critical consensus reads, "Sweet, soulful, and smart, Spike Jonze s Her uses its just barely sci fi scenario to impart wryly funny wisdom about the state of modern human relationships.".